The Blowjob Manifesto: part 4

Gentlemen,

You're not being coy when you slowly and slyly put your penis close to a woman's face.

We know what you want and if we really wanted to do it we would go for it, no matter where your penis is.

Just sayin'. This tactic does work a lot of the time, I know - but would it work for women, too?

I think I'm going to see how nonchalantly I can put my vagina near someone's face the next time I want someone to go down on me.

I'll let you know how it works.

Dave sent me this.

POWER TO THE PEOPLE

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Veronica Fever

I'm only going to explain this once more.

My name is Veronica.
Raw Knee is a pseudonym. Back in the teenage years my peers often opted to call me "Ronnie". I never really liked it. At one point I said "If you're going to call me Ronnie you have to spell it like this: Raw Knee" It stuck (with most people).

I may be a fellatio aficionado, but I'm not a self-depreciating hoe-bag. If I ever have raw knees it's because I'm a klutz and I fall a lot, not because I'm constantly on my knees sucking cock.

Capiche?

You should listen to "Veronica Fever" by the Ravonettes. I kind of think it was written about me. (wishful delirious thinking).


The Brainstorm meeting for the March issue of UpFront is this afternoon. You can count on me to have absolutely no ideas nor creativity - but to pump out another informative column.
Due to space issues: the entirety of the "bottom 10's" didn't get printed. I'm considering posting the rejected categories here.
Yeah, I think I'll do that. Keep your eyes peeled. It'll probably be a couple of days.

Love,
Raw Knee

The Blowjob Manifesto pt 3 - Regret, Stigma, Empowerment And Feminism Through Cock Sucking

There are times, after performing fellatio, that a woman can feel like she's been subordinated or otherwise used and starts to feel shame.  This does not always happen and it doesn't happen to everyone.  When it does happen it could be immediately afterwards or even years afterwards.

The best way to avoid this feeling is to only go as far as you are comfortable with someone, although the regret feeling isn't always avoidable. 

A year and some odd months ago, I dated a man for a brief period of time... less than 2 months

I was into him like white on rice, and he expressed that the feeling was mutual. The first (and only) time I ever gave him head I had him screaming in ecstasy. The man was screaming my name so loud that I'm sure all of downtown Ottawa heard it (bear in mind that my name is not actually Raw Knee). He always told me that I was the best he'd ever had at everything we ever did, but never with as much enthusiasm as he saved for that blowjob. He shot my ego through the roof.

As previously stated, this was a very short relationship, if you could even call it that.  It also ended very abruptly and on bad terms.  I spent months moping over it. During those months, and even now sometimes when I think about it I feel a tinge of regret and my self worth takes a temporary nose dive.   I regret blowing him because he never treated me as well as I treated him.

  I've found a way to counter this feeling, and it has everything to do with my key to avoiding it in the first place.

I sucked his dick because I WANTED TO.

I had the power in that situation.  He didn't make me do it, I wanted to and I did a damn good job.  The poor bastard will probably never be so lucky again. So why should I feel bad about it?

I was exerting my power as a woman.  He's never going to forget me and he might even regret how he treated me in the end.  So really, who should have the regrets?

If you ever get that post-fellatio feeling of regret just remember that you did it because you wanted to, that he's a damn lucky guy to have had you and that you can take away the privilege at any time.

The Blowjob Manifesto pt 2 - etiquette

Do's/Don'ts for Men

Do verbalize how much you're enjoying it

Do remind her how good she is at this

Do use positive and constructive vocabulary to guide her where you want her

Don't use her ears or hair as a handle unless you know she likes it. (Try it once, if you get a negative response - don't do it again)

Don't blow your load without warning

Do ask first if you can release in her mouth

Don't make your disappointment too obvious when she says 'no'.

Do say thank you, or express your appreciation in another way.

Do's/Don'ts for Women (or men who life to give head)

Do be aware of your teeth, try not to use them.

Do get messy, spit, slobber, the whole shabang.

Do try to deepthroat. Even if you gag a little, it's okay (so long as you can handle it) When you gag they think they're huge in the pants. It's like a synthetic boost of testosterone for the recipient.

Don't stick your finger up his ass without prior consent

Do be careful with the testes

Don't expect me to give away all my tips for free... sorry gals, this is all you get.

xoxoxoxo

RawKnee

The Blowjob Manifesto pt 1

Never has another act of sexual expression caused me so much grief.

From the man who kept screwing around on his wife because the head was supposedly so good... to the man who refuses to acknowledge my carnal needs because I've withheld blowjob privileges from him....and everyone in between.

The blowjob is power. He wants it, and he can't do it himself. It's one of women's optimum manipulatory tools. If you want him to take you out for a nice evening on the town, chances are you'll get it if you properly allude to the possibility of a nice hummer at the end of the night.

One can also be more blunt, to quote a friend of mine "I'll give you the best head of your life if you just find it for me!" What she was looking for is none of your business, but you can trust me that it was worth having a mouth full of cock for 10 minutes.

I think a major problem is that, for some, the blowjob has become an expected aspect of most any sexual encounter. A blowjob is "just a blowjob" whereas sex is a big deal.

Bear in mind that this is my opinion. I happen to believe that a blowjob is a bigger deal than sex. It takes more work for the one performing the act, it's more intrusive and labour intensive than sex. There's a vulnerability and the acceptance of involved in performing fellatio. Nodoby has ever choked and died from getting ass fucked. comprende, senor? It's just plain intimate. (I also think that kissing is more intimate than sex. It takes little emotion to bend over and take it, but to kiss someone you have to face them... you can taste them.) I can only speak for myself here but there are some hoops you need to jump through before you can put yer dick in my mouth. (Aside from the odd drunken one-night-stand. Drunk Raw Knee is pretty skanky)

Hoop #1: Trust. You have to build up at least a little trust with me

Hoop #2: Make me feel special. Blowjobs feel REALLY good. I know this, and I'm not gonna make you feel good 'till you make me feel good. Whether it's emotional or physical, you have to prove that you're worth it.

Hoop#3: Don't ask for it and don't try to force it. Begging is okay, but only when I've told you to beg.